What I offer

Infidelity Counselling

Infidelity Counselling
Few things shake a relationship like the discovery of an affair. The ground gives way - everything you thought you knew is suddenly in question, and the pain can feel impossible to hold. But an affair does not have to be the end of your story. With the right support, many couples don't just survive it - they build something more honest and more deeply connected than before.
Few things shake a relationship like the discovery of an affair. The ground gives way - everything you thought you knew is suddenly in question, and the pain can feel impossible to hold. But an affair does not have to be the end of your story. With the right support, many couples don't just survive it - they build something more honest and more deeply connected than before.
Infidelity Counselling

AN ATTACHMENT INJURY

Why It Cuts So Deep

In Emotionally Focused Therapy — the approach behind all my couples work — an affair is understood as an attachment injury: a profound break in the sense that your partner is there for you, that you are safe with them. That's why it cuts so deep, and why "just moving on" rarely works. Healing isn't about forgetting. It's about understanding what happened, grieving it together, and slowly rebuilding the bond that was broken — so trust can become possible again.

"An affair breaks far more than a rule. It breaks the sense that you are safe with each other. That is what we rebuild — carefully, and at your pace."
Sabrina

THE PROCESS

What Working Together Looks Like

what to expect

What to Expect

We move slowly and safely. There is room for the hurt partner's pain and anger, and room for the partner who strayed to understand and take responsibility for the impact. Over time, we work towards honest conversations that rebuild trust, repair the attachment bond, and help you decide — together — what you want to build next. You are never pushed faster than you are ready to go.

Who it's for

Couples in the immediate aftermath of discovery, and couples who have been carrying the weight of an affair for months or years without ever truly resolving it. Whether you are certain you want to repair the relationship, or simply unsure and unable to stay as you are, this work can help you find your way forward.